{"id":1191,"date":"2023-12-07T00:36:08","date_gmt":"2023-12-06T23:36:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.cestypsychotroniky.cz\/?p=1191"},"modified":"2023-12-25T01:39:58","modified_gmt":"2023-12-25T00:39:58","slug":"rady-pro-blizke-clenu-sekt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cestypsychotroniky.cz\/index.php\/2023\/12\/07\/rady-pro-blizke-clenu-sekt\/","title":{"rendered":"Rady pro bl\u00edzk\u00e9 \u010dlen\u016f sekt"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Setkali jste se se sekt\u00e1\u0159i ?<\/strong><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Pokud byste m\u011bli tu sm\u016flu, \u017ee by to postihlo i n\u011bkter\u00e9 Va\u0161e bl\u00edzk\u00e9, zde jsou rady, jak si po\u010d\u00ednat:<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>1. V\u0161\u00edmat si zm\u011bn<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Pro to, abychom \u010dlov\u011bku mohli pomoci v prvn\u00ed f\u00e1zi, kdy je pomoc je\u0161t\u011b mo\u017en\u00e1, je t\u0159eba si v\u0161\u00edmat zm\u011bn. V jeho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, my\u0161len\u00ed, n\u00e1zorech, toho, \u017ee \u010dasto nen\u00ed doma, jeho nov\u00fdch p\u0159\u00e1tel. A tak\u00e9 s n\u00edm o nich mluvit, zaj\u00edmat se, pt\u00e1t se.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>2. Nepropadnout emoc\u00edm<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u010casto je prvn\u00ed spont\u00e1nn\u00ed reakc\u00ed hn\u011bv, h\u00e1dka, agresivn\u00ed p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed. Takov\u00e9 reakce jsou naprosto ne\u00fa\u010dinn\u00e9 a maj\u00ed sp\u00ed\u0161e opa\u010dn\u00fd efekt. Rodi\u010de maj\u00ed tak\u00e9 \u010dasto pocit viny a hanby za to, \u017ee nedok\u00e1zali ochr\u00e1nit sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Takov\u00e9 pocity v t\u00e9to situaci tak\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 nepomohou a nav\u00edc je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 op\u011bt m\u00edt na pam\u011bti, \u017ee nikdo nen\u00ed v\u016f\u010di p\u016fsoben\u00ed sekt imunn\u00ed. I \u010dlov\u011bk z dobr\u00e9 rodiny, vyrovnan\u00fd a \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, je sektou osloviteln\u00fd.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>3. Nechovat se nep\u0159\u00e1telsky<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Nep\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00e9 je pro \u010dlena jak\u00e9koli p\u0159emlouv\u00e1n\u00ed, citov\u00e9 vyd\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed, ozna\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed skupiny za sektu, kritizov\u00e1n\u00ed, zesm\u011b\u0161\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed. Ani rozumov\u00e1 argumentace a konfronta\u010dn\u00ed p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed nemaj\u00ed v\u00fdznam.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>4. Udr\u017eet kontakt<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Pokud chceme b\u00fdt \u010dlov\u011bku v sekt\u011b opravdu n\u00e1pomocni, je nutn\u00e9 s n\u00edm udr\u017eet kontakt. I kdy\u017e odejde od rodiny, m\u011bl by st\u00e1le v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee ta o n\u011bho neztratila z\u00e1jem, \u017ee je st\u00e1le milov\u00e1n. Velk\u00fd v\u00fdznam m\u00e1 snaha pochopit motivy, kter\u00e9 ho vedly do sekty, a pokusit se odstranit p\u0159\u00ed\u010diny. S. Hassan doporu\u010duje ps\u00e1t \u010dasto kr\u00e1tk\u00e9 dopisy, ob\u010das zavolat, podporovat ho v tom, aby kdykoli zavolal i na n\u00e1\u0161 \u00fa\u010det. D\u00e1t mu najevo, \u017ee m\u016f\u017ee kdykoliv p\u0159ij\u00edt. To je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 hlavn\u011b kv\u016fli jeho p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00e9mu odchodu ze sekty. Ru\u0161\u00ed to tak\u00e9 obraz sv\u011bta, kter\u00fd skupina \u010dlenovi pod\u00e1v\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>5. Projevovat respekt<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I kdy\u017e se n\u00e1m zd\u00e1 v\u00edra na\u0161eho bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho a skupina, do n\u00ed\u017e pat\u0159\u00ed, sebebizarn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a hloup\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, m\u011bli bychom respektovat jeho rozhodnut\u00ed. \u010clen by m\u011bl v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee n\u00e1\u0161 postoj ke skupin\u011b je negativn\u00ed a kritick\u00fd. Ale tak\u00e9 by si m\u011bl b\u00fdt jist, \u017ee postoj k n\u011bmu je vst\u0159\u00edcn\u00fd, \u017ee respektujeme jeho svobodu a zodpov\u011bdnost za vlastn\u00ed \u017eivot. V \u00fact\u011b bychom m\u011bli m\u00edt tak\u00e9 jeho pot\u0159ebu duchovn\u00edho \u017eivota a nepova\u017eovat ho za hlup\u00e1ka jen proto, \u017ee si vybral neobvyklou v\u00edru \u010di zp\u016fsob \u017eivota.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>6. Dob\u0159e se informovat<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>O skupin\u011b bychom se m\u011bli dob\u0159e informovat, zjistit, jestli jsou na\u0161e obavy opr\u00e1vn\u011bn\u00e9. Dobr\u00e9 je p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst si kritick\u00e9 \u010dl\u00e1nky, sledovat po\u0159ady v televizi, informovat se u odborn\u00edk\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed se touto problematikou zab\u00fdvaj\u00ed. Vhodn\u00e9 je si tak\u00e9 p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst n\u011bco ze sekt\u00e1\u0159sk\u00e9 literatury (kter\u00e1 n\u00e1m bude jist\u011b nab\u00eddnuta), tak\u00e9 proto, aby \u010dlen vid\u011bl n\u00e1\u0161 z\u00e1jem o n\u011bho. Nejlep\u0161\u00edm zdrojem informac\u00ed jsou b\u00fdval\u00ed \u010dlenov\u00e9 sekty, kte\u0159\u00ed n\u00e1m tak\u00e9 mohou dob\u0159e poradit.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>7. Db\u00e1t na vlastn\u00ed pot\u0159eby<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Zapomenout bychom nem\u011bli tak\u00e9 na svoje vlastn\u00ed pot\u0159eby a probl\u00e9my. Nejl\u00e9pe m\u016f\u017eeme pomoci, pokud jsme vyrovnan\u00ed sami se sebou. Zbyte\u010dn\u011b riskovat bychom tak\u00e9 nem\u011bli \u00fa\u010dast\u00ed na aktivit\u00e1ch skupiny.<\/p>\n<p><em>Cecilie Militk\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Metodika informac\u00ed a rad pro bl\u00edzk\u00e9 \u010dlen\u016f sekt, Absolventsk\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce, Caritas &#8211; vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed odborn\u00e1 \u0161kola soci\u00e1ln\u00ed, Olomouc 1999, str. 29-31<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Z \u010dasopisu Dingir, 4\/1999, internet: http:\/\/www.dingir.cz <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Setkali jste se se sekt\u00e1\u0159i ?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":852,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,5,12],"tags":[27,51],"class_list":["post-1191","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nazory","category-souvislosti","category-zdravi-2","tag-skepse","tag-zdravi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cestypsychotroniky.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1191","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cestypsychotroniky.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cestypsychotroniky.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cestypsychotroniky.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cestypsychotroniky.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1191"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.cestypsychotroniky.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1191\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1192,"href":"https:\/\/www.cestypsychotroniky.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1191\/revisions\/1192"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cestypsychotroniky.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/852"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cestypsychotroniky.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1191"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cestypsychotroniky.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1191"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cestypsychotroniky.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1191"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}